• I love the title of the book how did you come up with it?
• What is a “Torch Carrier”
• When will we see a positive man like you on Oprah?
• Why did you feel the need to tell your story?
• How were you able to write such a candid and revealing book?
• Do you feel you have opened the eyes of people about the nature of caregivers and secondary victims of cancer?
• “The Torch Carrier” speaks to a multitude of demographics such as: Caregivers, Secondary Victims of Breast Cancer, Widowhood, Love the second time around, Emotional maturity in men, dispelling taboo issues with in the African American Community and Single Parenting for Father’s of Color, is there any one topic which you feel strongest about?
• Do you believe in support groups?
• How can we as readers help promote such a unique book which must be read?
• How do we contact you about being a guest speaker or doing a workshop?
• How have you changed since writing, lecturing and touring with the book?
• Have your life goals changed since the writing and promoting your book?
• You became a widower at such a young age, how have you handled being a single parent?
• How are your children doing?
• How have you balanced your relationship with your children and your new love?
• Your life dispels many myths about men in general and African American men in particular, are you the exception or the mold to break the rule?
• I see you dedicated the book to your mother, wife and new love, what role did your relationship with these women have on your overall make-up as a man?
• When will your next book be coming out? And will it be a book of fiction or non-fiction?
• The poetry within “The Torch Carrier” was excellent have you considered a book of just poetry?
• You speak of surreal experiences and dreams about your wife, do you still dream about your wife and have those experiences?
• How has the fall out from the book changed your life if any?
• Have you remarried yet? When? Why not?
• When if ever did you realize you had written a true and unique love story?